Old Friends

Robert Fettgather has served as Special Consultant in psychometrics to the Departments of Education and holds a specialist credential in learning handicapped and community college credentials in both learning and developmental disabilities. Robert Fettgather has taught at San Jose State University, National University and Mission College in Santa Clara.  He has addressed State and National Conferences on a variety of topics.

Let's talk about old friends. Friendships are the threads that weave the tapestry of our lives, and among these, old friendships stand as resilient pillars of support and understanding. The importance of maintaining and cherishing these enduring connections cannot be overstated. As life unfolds, presenting its myriad challenges and changes, old friendships serve as an anchor, a source of comfort, and a testament to the enduring power of human connection.

As the sands of time shift and circumstances evolve, the trust and understanding embedded in old friendships become invaluable. These relationships have weathered the storms of life, and the depth of shared experiences allows for a level of understanding that is hard to replicate. The trust built over the years enables individuals to be their authentic selves, knowing that they are accepted and loved for who they are, flaws and all. Authenticity may be one of the most essential aspects to lasting friendship.

Old friendships become a wellspring of emotional support during challenging times. Whether facing personal struggles, career setbacks, or the complexities of family life, knowing that there are friends who have witnessed and shared similar experiences brings solace and strength. The shared wisdom accumulated over the years becomes a valuable resource, providing perspective and guidance when navigating life's complexities.

In the era of social media and rapid technological advancement, maintaining old friendships has become more accessible than ever. Digital platforms offer a convenient way to stay connected, share updates, and even engage in virtual gatherings. Despite the physical distances that may separate individuals, the power of technology can be harnessed to bridge the gap and sustain the flame of old friendships.