Friday, September 12, 2025

On Dying And Death



The Institute for Personality and Ability Testing has certified Robert Fettgather as a Stress Management Trainer, and Medical Hypnosis Seminars of the Los Gatos Institute has certified him in Clinical Hypnotherapy.  At Santa Clara University, Graduate Department of Education and Counseling Psychology, his studies included Health Education and Behavioral Medicine. Robert Fettgather  has completed Hospice Training with Hospice of the Valley.


Even though every individual’s life story ends with death, there is a great deal of variation from one person to another in how that event manifests itself. The circumstances of an individual’s death influence how both the dying individual herself and the bereaved cope with the emotional turmoil and sense of loss that typically accompany death. The age of the bereaved matters as well because beliefs, attitudes, and responses to death and loss unfold over the lifespan.

Medical personnel distinguish between several types of death.  The term clinical death refers to the few minutes after the heart has stopped pumping, when breathing has stopped, and there is no evident brain function, but during which resuscitation is still possible. Presumably those who report near-death experiences were in a state of clinical death

Besides clinical death, Brain death describes a state in which the person no longer has reflexes or any response to vigorous external stimuli and no electrical activity in the brain. Social death occurs at the point when other people treat the deceased person like a corpse.

Reflection Point: Most people state they would prefer to die at home-yet as the following data shows, that is often not the case. 

In the industrialized world, death most often occurs in hospitals-37%. That's followed by Decedent’s Home- 30%. Hospice Facility-8%. Nursing Home/Long-Term Care-19%. Other-6%.  Note the large numbers of people who die in hospitals and nursing homes. Not so long ago, birth and death were treated as very natural and normal aspects of the lifespan. In The Medicalization of Birth and Death, political scientist Lauren K. Hall argues that medicalization decreases competition, suppresses innovation, and, most importantly, prevents individuals from accessing the most appropriate care.

For the terminally ill, hospice workers and facilities provide an alternative form of care. An obsession with using technology to prolong life has changed how Americans cope with death (part of medicalization). Hospice care provides physical and emotional comfort to patients nearing the end of their lives.

Monday, September 1, 2025

With Sadness On Labor Day



The Institute for Personality and Ability Testing has certified Robert Fettgather as a Stress Management Trainer, and Medical Hypnosis Seminars of the Los Gatos Institute has certified him in Clinical Hypnotherapy.  At Santa Clara University, Graduate Department of Education and Counseling Psychology, Robert Fettgather studied Health Education and Behavioral Medicine. Robert Fettgather has completed Hospice Training with Hospice of the Valley.



As you fire up the barbecue this holiday, consider the following. Labor Day has long been a celebration of workers’ contributions and a reminder of the utility and outright dignity of labor. Yet in 2025, a new challenge is reshaping the workforce: artificial intelligence. While AI promises efficiency and innovation, it also seems well-positioned to threaten the foundation of stable employment.


Across industries, AI is displacing jobs once thought secure, particularly for newcomers. White-collar roles in law, finance, and healthcare are increasingly automated, while service and logistics workers face growing replacement from robotics and algorithms. This shift risks widening inequality: highly skilled workers who design and manage AI systems gain, while millions of middle- and lower-income workers see their livelihoods diminished. College grads now have a higher unemployment rate than the population at large!


The consequences extend well beyond paychecks. Think about the psychological impacts and loss of identity. Work provides not only income, but also structure, community, and, particularly, meaning. We face a future where machines dominate production, leaving people alienated and society divided. While Labor Day should always honor past victories, more importantly it must, spark urgent dialog and action about how to ensure that AI serves human needs rather than displacing them.


Without deliberate policies to restrict AI development (as well as job retraining, stronger labor protections, and equitable distribution of AI’s gains),  the holiday meant to honor workers may become a day of mourning as we grieve a way of life that is forever lost.

On Dying And Death

The Institute for Personality and Ability Testing has certified Robert Fettgather as a Stress Management Trainer, and Medical Hypnosis Semin...